Sometimes being in a relationship might seem such a chore. It can become overwhelming, over bearing and burdensome. If at some point of time we feel this way, why then are we always so eager to be in them? At the beginning, everyone knows that a relationship is fun and exciting but how do you carry that excitement and joy through the entire relationship? The key to this is awareness.
Many times we are not aware about how we make others feel. What we are aware of is how others make us feel. If we want to have an enjoyable relationship then we must create it. Don't think about what your girlfriend or London escort has given you or what they have not been able to provide for you, if you decide to make the effort to bring a sense of enjoyment to the relationship, it just might be the thing that helps it survive and grow.
There are many roles that you may have to play in your relationship and so will your girl but that should not be an excuse as to why your relationship is so tired and boring. We always tend to think that someone else has to change, why can't we learn to change ourselves, our attitudes to the way in which we look at our lives and by extension, our relationships?
Before we learn to enjoy our relationships we must learn to love life, to enjoy it, take a few risks, laugh a few times sometimes at ourselves, and sometimes at the London escorts. How we view life, its challenges and all, will determine how we treat others in our relationships. If we are happy, they are happy, if we are upset we are making sure that they know it. It does not have to be like that. Life is too short to make the little things steal your joy, your happiness and your peace.
Make up your mind that you want to be with your girlfriend or wife. If you don't want to be with them you may never enjoy your relationship. Once you decide that you are in it for the long haul and that you love her, don't be afraid to let her know it. Make it a conscious choice to change your attitude in your relationship as this is the only way you will be able to enjoy life together.
Relationships don't have to get boring, they don't have to be stressful. With the right attitude you can have the relationship that you always dreamed of. It's all about attitude so don't let anyone else tell you any different.