You Love Her Not Her Style

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How to Change your woman’s style without changing her

Three years down the road and you’re with an amazing woman, she loves you, and you love her, but there seems to be something wrong and you can’t quite put your finger on it. Until one day, she decides to crash over at your place wearing your sweater and a really baggy shirt. You suddenly realize that the hot trotting girl you met some years back who happens to be the love of your life, may have been getting way too comfortable with your company she decides to put her lousiest fashion foot forward. But you love her, and you don’t want to hurt her, it’s just that you’re starting to hate her style. How do you tell her to change it up a bit without sounding like a boor?

Before you decide to break it to her, you need to understand that while most women try to change a man, you should never try to change your woman. That’s their role, or at least they think it is. Changing her would mean that you dislike the person she has become with you or that you no longer find her interesting, either way, you’re going to end up hurting her feelings, and that’s something you don't want to happen. But if you’re convinced that she truly needs a style intervention, then it’s best to do it slowly. Don’t rush into changing her style because it would seem like you’re trying to change her. Give her hints, and send her some signals that would make her come to her senses; a woman always needs time. Now if despite all your efforts, she still fails to realize how badly she needs to reinvent herself, then ask her nicely, consult her girl friends on what to do, but don't let them be the one to tell her. A woman appreciates it more when it comes from the man she loves. It’s like a form of reassurance, that you love her and that you only want the best for her.

Every woman wants to be perceived as sexy; if for a man, having a great body makes them feel hot, for women, it’s being recognized and considered sexy by the people around her that boost her morale. This is one of the main reasons why majority of London escorts dress sexy. It’s not enough that you feel sexy; you have to look sexy too. Now if you’re woman isn’t that keen on putting on some sexy dresses, then let her try to come out of her comfort zone in increments. Sexy isn’t all about the clothes; you can ask her to have a really sexy hair cut, that way, she can visualize herself well enough and assess if she can pull off a complete style overhaul.

But if at the end of the day, your woman is still unresponsive to all your efforts, then it’s best to just rest your case. Like I said, you can never really change her, let alone the way she dresses, but this shouldn’t mean that you should love her less. After all, you love her not because of what she wears, but because of who she is and if her style antics sell you short, at least her love for you hasn’t.