It’s a hard pill to swallow, for a guy to realise that the signs he used to read as “I’m not interested” actually meant “I like the game, now let’s play a bit”. Not being able to read the signs that a woman is playing hard to get or worse still, misinterpreting them is really frustrating. Its even worse if you realise this a long time after you’ve given up. It’s not usually normal for a woman to approach you and disclose her feelings, this makes her look easy and available. Playing hard to get is fun, even for escorts, since most guys like the challenge and the chase, but how do you tell that she is playing the game, interested or simply not interested at all?
Most ladies will appear cool on the first approach from a guy. All may go well depending on your game and if you play your game right. You may get her number. If she knows your usual daily routine, like your favourite restaurant or bar and seems to be in the same place at the same time pretty often, then it’s a good sign that you’re already halfway there. ‘Not interested’ will avoid you like the plague.
If on the first call you end up with a voicemail, then try again another time. If the number doesn’t get answered by her the second or third time in a row and it’s rare for you to meet coincidentally, or she gives multiple excuses that sound lame and still doesn’t give the option of when she might be available, then just accept it, clear some space in your phonebook and move on.
The first date gives the most lasting impression, so just be yourself. If she doesn’t like you for who you are, then she’s not worth your time. If she calls you to say thanks, it’s a good sign. If not, call her and see how the land lies, then make your judgement from the conversation and take it from there.
Approaching women is both difficult and easy at the same time. The only thing you need to know is just to be genuine and real. Be yourself, as that is the only person you can imitate without any difficulty. The game of Hard-to-get is also fun, but when extended, may act as a turn off. Therefore, ladies should know where to draw the line.