Be Her Dream Guy: Making Relationships Last


Most women are after either the man of their dreams, their knight in shining armour, or a handsome prince - a fairytale come true! Sadly, and truth be told, most guys don't fit into that archetype.

Regardless if you're the Prince of Wales or the prince of cheap dates, don't fret! You don't have to be everything that she wants to make everything else about your relationship special. Here are some pointers on what you should look at regarding your relationship:

Always be the guy that your girl needs. More than being the man of the house or the one who brings the most money home, being able to be there for her is what counts the most. Being your girls emotional support system shows her how much you want to invest time with her or for her, and that you'd go out of your way to do so. This is ideally what women want from their guys. It doesn't matter if you look like Ryan Gosling or not, although it is a plus, but you're as relevant if you unleash your sensitive side and be strong for her.

Open communication is also important. A lot of relationships go up in flames because of both parties insistence on what they think is right. The worst part about this is nothing ever really fixes it other than a night in bed in separate rooms or an intervention. Don't wait until you get bullied by your woman for being a coward regarding talking about your relationship issues. As guys, everyone knows that there's this bro code of non-interference with other peoples relationships. This is why, more often than not, the guys are on the losing side of the conversation with your woman if you are seeing a counsellor. To evade this entirely, short dialogues and open-minded conversations will mitigate whatever rough patches you are going through as a couple.

Everything else aside, keep her involved in your life. There's nothing worse than your partner feeling that she's at polar opposites with the rest of the things you're doing with your life...or that you might just prefer to spend time with a Romford escort than her. Little things like talking to her about what makes your work fascinating or frustrating, introducing her to your closest friends and family over dinner or meet ups, and even telling her your fondest childhood memories are great things to do for her. These gestures reassure her of her value in your life. Moreover, it will make her feel that she's that important in your life that you want her to be a part of what you've become over the years. Yeah, its touchy-feely we know, but why not, if its for the girl you want to spend the rest of your life with!